One of the things that my coach had me do was to view myself at my 50th birthday party, and to write, from the perspective of my wife, what I would hope that she would say. That was an incredible experience for me, one of the most meaningful experiences that I had because I was able to have a vision of the future. I saw into the future what I hope that my would feel about me when I am 50, and the things that she said felt so good to hear that it made me now come back to the present and want to start doing those things in my life.